Sunday, March 27, 2011

Drugs and alcohol

Hey there,

Today's topic is "Your views on drugs and alcohol", this is day 10. 1/3rd of the way there!
Well, my views in general are that people should be able to do whatever they want as long as they're not hurting anyone else.
I have no problem with drugs such as weed because it is generally pretty harmless and makes people pretty laid back generally.
Alcohol is fine as long as you don't get out of control. I know people who could be considered alcoholics because they drink almost daily, get wasted and become harmful to themselves, which then effects the people around them.
That is what you don't want.
I've heard people say that perhaps weed should be legalised and alcohol should be made illegal because when someone's high on weed, they don't get in the car and drive, possibly causing an accident and killing someone like when someone drives drunk. They also don't get high and beat their wives like some men do when drunk.
On the other hand, weed can cause schitzophrenia and other mental disorders, which are harmful to a person's life.

In the end, I think it's up to choice and responsibility. If you are going to drink or do drugs, you should ensure you do it responsibly so you don't hurt anyone else in the process. Know your limits, don't get COMPLETELY trashed. There's no point in that.

V.

Saturday, March 26, 2011

The Last Kiss

Today in the thirty day challenge the statement to talk about is "your last kiss".
It was two years ago. Can you believe that?
She was gorgeous. She was not my girlfriend. It felt kind of like a one night stand but it was just a little intimate kissing.
We didn't speak again after that day. We weren't very good friends anyway, we were more like associates I guess. I don't hate her though. We had a great time that night, we were both feeling a little sexual so we acted on that.

I just can't believe it's been so long, I need some mouth to mouth action!

V.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Worry

Today's topic for the 30 day challenge is "Something you're worried about".
I'm worried about university, it's a constant worry for me now days. It's essay after essay after essay and I'm not sure I can get them finished. I have one that just needs another 100 words out of 1000 so just needs a conclusion but then after that I'll have 12 days to write another three essays. I thought 10 days for one was bad but now, fuck.

Worry will probably make me sick, which will make me more incapable of doing essays.
Also, I need glasses that are still a week away! I can't read large amounts until I get them.

V.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Cheating

Today's topic is "Your opinion on cheating on people".
This is easy because I have a very strong opinion on this. It's wrong. WRONG, WRONG, WROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG.
If you love someone, cheating on them is fucking wrong.
Even if you're not IN love with your partner, it's wrong to cheat on them because it hurts them and you have no right to hurt another human being in that way. They may love you, in which case, it'll break their heart.
I know people who have cheated on their partners and have no problem with it and will continue to do it.
As someone who has been cheated on by both of the partners I've had in my life, I guess this issue is very close to my heart. I guess when you feel sexually drawn to someone even though you already have a partner, the only thing you can do is to THINK about how you'd feel if you were cheated on by someone you love.
If not, fine, cheat but I think you're really horrible if you do. Stay single if you can't stop yourself from cheating because then you'll never have to worry about breaking someone's heart when you do sleep with a million different people.

V.

Liking someone

Hey.

I'm not very good at this 30 day challenge. Yesterday's topic of conversation is "The person you like and why you like them".

Well, I've liked him for 2 years and haven't told him so I don't think it'd be wise to tell everyone here who he is but the reason I like him is because he is everything I want in a person, he's funny, intelligent and good looking. He has bad points, he's a womaniser, he's arrogant and he can be a total jerk, which is partly why I wouldn't ever tell him how I feel because he would probably be a jerk about it and would never speak to me again.

So that's him. He also has a girlfriend so what's the point in telling him anyway?

V.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Irritation

Hey all,

Today's post is "5 things that irritate you about the opposite/same sex" and this is not as easy as I thought it would be.

Number one thing that annoys me about humans of either sex is that they're untrustworthy, for example, I never really want to be in a relationship because there is a big chance the other person will cheat on me. I'm not sure why humans feel the need to do this but they do. They're quite content to tell someone they love them and then go and have sex with a random person straight after. It's mind blowing to me.

Number two: Men irritate me when they act ignorantly towards the way women are feeling. Like, I know you're another gender but that doesn't make you a fucking alien from out of space, it's obvious when we're uncomfortable with your questions or angry or sad so do the right thing and comfort us!

Number three: Girls, you irritate me with your superiority complex towards other girls, you are not better than me. I'm not sure what makes you think you are, whether it's because you dress better or are better looking or even have more money than me but you're not better than me. If you take the time to get to know me, you'll know that you're not better than me, we're equals so get over your catty problems.


That's actually all I can think of.
Maybe one day I'll add more.
I have a week to finish my assignment that I started today, it's 1000 words.

V.

Bedtime!

Hey all,

I know I'm a day late so I'll have to write two of these today.
Today's question is "What do you wear to bed?"

The answer is pajamas, they're not always matching or around the right way but they're pajamas all the same. I sometimes wear nothing in summer if it's really hot but now it's getting colder, PJ's are necessary.

Next post in 10 minutes!

V.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Attraction

Hey all,

Question today for day three: "What kind of person attracts you?"
Lucky this is a very simple answer.

Rich people.

Just joking.

My answer is, anyone who is funny, intelligent, able to have their own opinions and relatively good looking is my perfect person.

They may be male or female but I'd prefer they were within my current age range, which is 18-24, anyone older and I find them hard to relate to because of the different experiences I've had in my life compared to them.

Recently I met a guy who was not overly good looking but he was SOOOO sarcastic and quick witted and made me laugh SO much that his looks didn't even matter. So even looks can be replaced with other great qualities like humour and intelligence.

In saying that though, intelligence by itself won't win any points so it's a bit of a mixed bag.

See you tomorrow.

V.

Saturday, March 19, 2011

Day two, ch-ch-changes

Hey,

Today in the 30 day challenge, the statement to talk about is: "How have you changed in the past two years?"

Two years is not a very long time. I don't think I've changed a huge amount in 2 years. Friends have come and gone but whether or not the reason they have gone was because of changes in me, is another thing that's completely debatable.

One of the changes in me is that two years ago, I thought I wanted to be a Journalist, I no longer know if that's what I want to do, but that's why I'm going to university, to find out what my life goal actually IS.

My hair has grown in the last two years. As I pointed out to people recently, I have been asked a lot lately if my drivers licence is a fake ID because I look so different on there to how I look now and that was only a picture from 2009.

I think that's all I can think of tonight. My theory on this challenge is the answers should be mostly short answers, unless asked otherwise, so that's what you'll get.

V.

Friday, March 18, 2011

30 Day Challenge

Hey guys,

I found this on someone's Tumbler today. Actually, let's be honest here. Someone was on someone's Tumbler during a lecture at university and I was sitting behind them and I thought it was fascinating.

So here it is, I'm about to start a 30 day challenge where I answer a question every day. It'll give my blog a daily kinda feel that it hasn't had, well, ever.























So number one is "Weird things you do when you're alone."
I can see already how dangerous this could become...

I guess the weirdest thing I do when I'm alone is talk to myself. I also listen to music out loud and sing along. Pretty normal stuff for people who are alone. The answer in previous years would have been a bit more dodgy but in the last few years I've calmed down a lot and straightened up.

I hope this project will be fascinating for all you people out there reading this. I also have a 365 day photo project going on, which I've been doing for 127 days today, so that's another priority for things I have to do each day, just bear with me!

Thanks,

V.